Looking For Love? Here's How You Can Combine Wellness With The Law Of Attraction

Our minds are continually subject to bombardment with messages from society. However, everything about your current life—from your home to your career—is a consequence of your own thoughts. If you pay close attention, you will see the correlation between your thoughts and what you have in your reality. This is also known as manifesting. Everything you experience is attracted to you because the Law of attraction is responding to the thoughts that you offered at some point.

The theory is simple: When you focus on a particular thing or person, you create a vibrational pull that attracts it or them toward you. It means being conscious of your thoughts, instead of reacting to them. Whether you’re remembering a past event, observing something in your present, or imagining something in your future, the thought that you are focusing on in the present moment has activated a vibration within you and the law of attraction is responding to it.

Now that you understand the basics, you may be eager to start working with the law of attraction. Since the practice is unique to each person that uses it, there’s a treasure trove of ways you can give it a whirl. However, here we are looking to seamlessly incorporate the fundamentals of the law of attraction to assist in finding a love partner.

Eliminate Stress

Don't self-savage. The single most common cause of an emotional or physical illness is the result of some form of stress that our mind has experienced. Build-ups of negativity that have been left unchecked can continue to grow until they eventually spill over into some physical sign of illness or distress.

As a result, eliminating as many forms of physiological stress, and refusing to allow any room in your mind for dwelling on the discomfort or worry of negativity can allow your body the room and time to regroup, creating a more positive and welcoming persona, giving yourself a fair chance to attract someone special into your life. Meditation can be a great way to de-stress daily.


Work On The Past

Everyone has their own idea of how to be more attractive, and for many, this involves playing hard to get. But does that strategy actually work, or does it just make it take longer to establish a trusting relationship with a potential partner? Working on processing and accepting previous trust issues from past relationships could actually enhance future connections.

Being able to learn and leave the past in the past could bring a pair of fresh trusting eyes into a future long-lasting relationship. It could also be said that feelings of neediness and insecurities from past relationships could make you more eager, which could have a link to people who are "too easy" being perceived as more desperate, which in turn makes them seem less valuable and appealing than those who do not make their romantic interest apparent right away.

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Be Kind & Utilise Positive Thinking

Once you begin to train your thoughts, you can discover and experience how positive thinking boosts health and mindset. Your body is perfect. Remember this and remain focused on the love that you feel for your body right now, only think about ways you can enhance what you already have.

Your attitude towards life, being kind and caring to others are all important personality traits people find attractive. These are all thing you control. The fait of your own happiness depends of your faith in the universe, so give yourself the best chance in life by hosting a positive mindset, use affirmations and visualise your perfect partner. Don't be disinterested in others, close-minded or self obsessed, these are all negative attributes which can be avoided.

Bolster feelings of attraction through positive colour and fashion. Blue and red are especially known for creating a great degree of temptation. For bonus points, try to find something blue or red that’s also soft and silky. Soft textures feel pleasant, are soothing, cozy, cuddly and give a sense of safety.

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Financial Responsibility

Even if you don’t have a flawless physique or fancy car, you may be attractive to potential partners if you have a handle on your financial future, which is known to be very or extremely important when choosing a partner, some even placing it ahead of sense of humour and physical attractiveness. This being said, learning boundaries, having a stable credit score, self discipline and forward thinking can carve yourself a successful love life.


Healthy Mind & Healthy Body

Become the master of your mind. We can all come to filter which thoughts we choose to listen to; controlling the amount of stress we permit into our bodies. It also works both ways, with health, wellness, and exercise promoting positive thinking.

Life has become more and more complex as our society has become more fixated with what we eat and the way that we look, partially to do with social media, unrealistic filters and comparing ourselves to others. Reject these ideas immediately! You and you alone are in control of what happens to your body. Taking charge of your wellness routine, mind and body, ultimately bolstering your self-image can be a giant step to combat confidence issues. Folk wisdom and research suggests that confidence is a highly attractive attribute to potential partners.

Mindful Eating

Emotional eating can be a source of shame and frustration, creating self doubt and a lack of confidence, but there are ways to beat it. The trick is to learn more about your triggers and develop a pattern of mindful eating that replaces the old self-destructive pattern of being an emotional eater. An emotional trigger could be loneliness, creating a vicious circle.

When it comes to weight, the Law of Attraction works in the exact same way that it would within any other part of your life. Due to this, if you are looking to lose weight you should find out more about how to harness the power of attraction in order to help transform your vision of a ‘perfect you’ into a 'perfect' reality.

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Laugh Out Loud

A great sense of humour is ranked as one of the top attributes a potential match can have. Laughing actually relaxes you, so without laughter in a relationship it could be a ticking time bomb. You don't have to be a comedian, however lightheartedness is important and without it you could hinder your opportunity to let your hair down and find "the one". Focusing on your inner child is not a bad thing, plus laughing is brilliant for the soul, so set yourself a goal to be happier, smile more and always look on the bright side of life.